5 Misconceptions About Pre-Planning Funeral Arrangements

Many people today don’t give funeral pre-planning serious consideration. It may not be because they doubt its value, but there are a few common myths out there. Let’s clear some of those up.

“I’m too young to think about this.” Pre-planning isn’t about expecting the end soon – everyone will eventually die. It’s about sparing the people you love a hard decision later, whenever that day comes. You don’t have to be doom and gloom about your future to make a move now to provide comfort to those in your life who love you.

“It’s too expensive to plan ahead.” Actually, the opposite is often true. Locking in today’s pricing protects your family from rising costs, and payment plans spread the cost out. Managing the finances now can prevent having to deal with the costs  while grieving. The younger you are the more benefit from this rising cost protection.

“My family already knows what I want.” Even close families disagree on the details of what they believe their loved one wishes for their funeral or memorial services. A written plan removes the guesswork — and the potential for conflict — at the worst possible time. Pre-planning also allows for you to select the individuals you would like to lead your service, the songs or poems that mean the most to you and to set the tone for the services you desire.

“Once I choose a plan, I’m locked in.” Most pre-need arrangements are flexible and can be updated as your wishes change. It’s a living document, not a permanent contract. This can be discussed with your funeral director when you choose your pre-planning package. Also, if you move away from the area, your pre-planning arrangements can move with you.

“This is something only older adults do.” This is probably the most common misconception of all. Many of the benefits, especially the locking in of pricing, is more advantageous the earlier you make a plan. Pre-planning is increasingly common among adults of all ages who want to take control of their own story and ease their family’s future stress.

The bottom line: Pre-planning is an act of care, for yourself and for those you’ll leave behind. The best time to decide is now, with a clear head — not under pressure. Read the next blog in our series which will be out soon and details some of the specific advantages of pre-planning of which you may not be aware.

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