More Than Romance — The Many Forms of Love We Celebrate

Valentine’s Day is often associated with romantic love—cards, flowers, and grand gestures. But for many people, especially those who are grieving, this narrow definition can feel incomplete.

We experience love in countless ways throughout our lives: the steady presence of a parent, the laughter shared with friends, the quiet devotion of caregivers, and the comfort of chosen family. These forms of love shape who we are and often sustain us during life’s most difficult moments. In times of loss, it is often these bonds—built on patience, shared history, and deep understanding—that carry us forward.

Love also shows itself in action. It appears when someone brings a meal without being asked, listens without trying to fix anything, or simply sits beside us in silence. These gestures are powerful reminders that we are not alone. They reflect a kind of love rooted in empathy and presence rather than words or celebration.

As Valentine’s Day approaches, try widening the lens through which you view love. Rather than focusing on what may feel absent, focus on the many relationships that have shaped your life and continue to influence you. Love is all around.

Let this season be an opportunity to reflect on the connections that matter most, in all their meaningful and lasting forms.