The Language of Flowers

Book cover from "The Language of Flowers by Dover Publications

Kate Greenaway, a 19th-century English children’s book illustrator published a pocket-sized gift book in 1884 entitled “The Language of Flowers.” The book contains an alphabetical list of over 200 plants and their figurative meanings. It is illustrated with color illustrations and accompanied by flower-themed poetry by writers of the day like Robert Burns and William Wordsworth.

Flowers have long been a meaningful way to express emotions when words are difficult to find. At a funeral or memorial service, flowers can offer comfort, honor a loved one, and reflect the special qualities of the person being remembered. We thought we’d explore some of the more common varieties and their meanings.

Lilies are among the most traditional funeral flowers. Their graceful appearance often symbolizes peace, purity, and the restoration of the soul. They may be sent on their own or combined in an arrangement with the loved one’s favorite flowers.

Roses can express different emotions depending on their color. Red roses traditionally represent deep love, respect and devotion making them a meaningful choice for a spouse or close family member. White roses are known to symbolize reverence and remembrance, and pink roses can convey admiration, appreciation and gentleness.

Carnations are a popular choice for funeral arrangements because of their beauty and long-lasting nature. They are often associated with remembrance and lasting love. Pink carnations can express gratitude, while white carnations may symbolize purity and innocence.

Chrysanthemums are closely associated with mourning and remembrance in many cultures. In the United States, they are often included in sympathy arrangements to represent honor, respect, and the lasting memory of someone who has passed. Their full blooms can also bring warmth and beauty to a memorial setting.

While traditional meanings can provide inspiration, there is no right or wrong choice. Ultimately, the most meaningful flower may simply be one that reminds you of your loved one. A favorite flower, a cherished color, or blooms from a home garden can tell a deeply personal story. Flowers provide a quiet way to tell the family that their loved one will long be remembered with love and affection.

A wide variety of floral arrangements are available on our website for the convenience of our families. Come back for our next blog which will discuss a bit of flower etiquette with details of how and when to send flowers to a home or memorial service.