Carol Van Ahlers

On this International Women’s Day, we proudly highlight Hilgenfeld Mortuary as a cornerstone of our community, celebrating its legacy as a woman-owned and family-operated business for nearly a century. For over 10 years, Becky Arieas has led Hilgenfeld Mortuary as the current owner, continuing the strong tradition established by her mother, Margie Hilgenfeld-Field, who served […]

In modern times, February has become the month of love. While it includes Valentine’s Day, the larger idea of love—connection, care, and lasting bonds—extends well beyond a single date on the calendar. It’s a fitting time to reflect on what love looks like over a lifetime, and what remains after someone we love has died.

Valentine’s Day is often associated with romantic love—cards, flowers, and grand gestures. But for many people, especially those who are grieving, this narrow definition can feel incomplete. We experience love in countless ways throughout our lives: the steady presence of a parent, the laughter shared with friends, the quiet devotion of caregivers, and the comfort

In the weeks following a death, families often find themselves managing practical matters while still grieving. This can feel exhausting, which is why understanding what typically needs attention, and when things need to be done, can help reduce stress. One of the first longer-term responsibilities is notifying organizations and institutions. This may include employers, insurance

When a loved one dies, it can be difficult to think clearly—yet important decisions and tasks often need to be handled right away. While every situation is different, understanding the first steps can help ease some of the uncertainty during a very emotional time. One of the first things that must happen is an official

The holidays have a way of illuminating what—and who—is missing. Traditions feel different, familiar songs suddenly ache, and even joyful gatherings can carry an undercurrent of longing. In the quiet moments, it’s easy for our attention to settle on what has been lost. But grief has another companion we don’t always notice: love. And love

The holidays often arrive with a script — bright lights, cheerful gatherings, and traditions meant to feel joyful. But when you’ve lost someone dear, those familiar rituals can feel like they belong to another life, another you. This year, there may be little energy for the old script. That’s okay. Think of this season as

Thanksgiving often brings families together around tables filled with food, stories, and laughter. But when someone we love is missing, that same table can feel achingly incomplete. The empty chair — once filled by a familiar face — becomes a powerful reminder of what was and what will always matter. This year, rather than turning

Though often mistaken for a “Day of the Dead” celebration of ghosts or fright, Día de Muertos is, at its heart, a profoundly spiritual tradition—one rooted in love, memory, and faith. The holiday actually spans two days, November 1 and 2. The first day honors deceased children and is known as Día los Inocentes or